In a world of digital media where we control each other’s perspective on us by gatekeeping the struggles of daily life, hitting rock bottom while portraying our Pinterest self, one can easily get deceived by the royalties. We start to question ourselves, drown in self-pity and shame, wondering if we have what it takes to live like them. Unknowingly, we create an ideal standard of life that one can never attain rather than find our own version of success.
Note: This article is part of our archival content and belongs to a previous phase of our publication. Amaranth Magazine is now a dedicated literary magazine.
If you can relate to all this, then this writing is definitely for you and me. It’s time to break the bubble and make our own story. Let’s embark on our journey of tiny steps, efforts, failures, glory all leading to an epic happy ending.
However, like the old saying goes, one must start from the bottom. No matter where you are in life, to create your own story, it’s never too late to take a step back, breathe and jot down the silliest goal to achieve. Now, that could be a beginning.
Let me share my secret steps to a ‘cleanse & care success routine’
Take the Most Satisfying Bath of the Century
Trust me, a soothing and satisfying bath motivates you like no other. Treat yourself to a wonderful bath or shower and style yourself.
Change of Scenery
I don’t recommend packing your bags and moving out. But a slight rearrangement of your workspace can do wonders. A new pen holder, dusting the desk, a new journal, or a cute plant can be a nice beginning.
Create an Achievable To-Do List
If you ask me, my to-do list always starts with a few chores I have already completed. There’s nothing more satisfying than seeing a list almost checked off. (Tip: For each task you check off, add another.)
Take the First Action
From the list, kick-start with the most basic task to get you going. Be it watching a TED Talk, following someone on LinkedIn, or reaching out to someone. Do it! You’ll never know unless you try.
Reach Out
Something I am hesitant about most of the time but that often surprises me is reaching out to experts. Networking with people who have already been in your shoes is one of the best ways to gain a better perspective on the direction you want to go. Once you get the tips and tricks, add your own charm and get to work.
Keep Track of Yourself
Don’t stray away, guys! This is when the silly to-do list comes in handy. Since your list contains tasks that are attainable and not far off, it’s easy to take the next step and stick with the routine. Also, break down your goal into tiny achievements and treat yourself every time you reach a milestone. The more you stay consistent, the more opportunities you’ll find yourself grabbing. Be they small or huge, just grab them!
Rinse & Repeat
After the first few cycles of constantly checking off things from the list and adding more, it will all come naturally to you, and you will already know you’re on the right track.
Keep a positive outlook, make it a lifestyle, and just remember, it’s up to you to decide which genre you want your story to be written in.
